Maybe Im different

Now, ya'll know I speak my mind. So if u dont like how I talk,what i say,or my topics,dont read my blogs. You got to understand this is my opioion,my view. Im not doing this for you. Im doing this to be heard, to change minds, not for your approval.

Ok,lets start.
Let's ne real. Some parents dont need to be parents. They just need to stop havinkids! Why you pay more attention to your nieces/nephews than your kids? Why you spend more time baking cakes and sweets and shit and dont spend time cooking your children food(i dont mean heat up some nuggests and fries, or order pizza or McDonalds)more like mashed potatoes, vegetables, greens,baked chicken,HOME cooked meals? Why you so busy at your momma and sister house than hearing your kids calling out in need for your love and attention? Why you spend more money on cigrettes than clothes on your kids back and hair done for school the next day? Why your kids gotta feel the need to find love elsewhere and possibly get pregnant? Why? Why do your kids hardly be at school? Why are they dropping out and you never tend to their homework?

Why? Cause your selfish! It dont make sense! That most kids gotta be parents and fend for themselves and care for thier your siblings because you out regaining your youth! What happend to raising your kids properly?

I guess I was lucky. We(my younger sis and I),had a great childhood. We(at the time)had BOTH are parents in the household. We had rules and strong foundation. Our parents knew where we were. And they were involved in our life and I think that that is what parents are lacking. They arent involved in their childrens life. I think that if you are not willing to not be so selfish and willing to make the kids, if you can't or won't take care of them!

Now as far as child abuse.....I have no tolerance for that! Not at all! What the
point in having kids if your going to beat them for no reason or reasons that has nothing to do with them?

They need love and guidence,and attention, not hate,stress,and yelling.

What are you thoughts?